Pamela Hilburger is an American celebrity parent known for being the mother of supermodel Devon Aoki. She came into the limelight during her marriage to the founder of the Benihana restaurant chain, Hiroaki ‘Rocky’ Aoki. Where is she today?

Devon Aoki’s family has dominated the Japanese restaurant business in the United States since her father established the first restaurant in 1964. Pamela joined the Aoki family in the 1970s as Rocky’s mistress, which eventually led to the breakup of the restaurateur’s first marriage.

Pamela Hilburger’s age

Devon Aoki’s mother, Pamela, is around 73 years old in 2024. She was born in 1951 in Germany, but her exact date of birth is unknown. 

Pamela’s parents were Rosa D. and Edwin Hilburger. She was raised alongside six siblings: the late Mark, Valerie, Larry, Derek, and Richard.

Pamela Hilburger’s children

Hilburger welcomed three children with Rocky Aoki. Their son Kyle was born around 1975 when they were still having an affair.

The couple also welcomed daughter Echo V. Aoki in 1977, around the same time Rocky’s son Steve was born. The restaurateur told the New York Times that his wife had forgiven him for the affair but divorced him after finding out about his other children.

Where is Pamela Hilburger today?

Hilburger has kept a low profile but a quick look at her Instagram reveals she enjoys her new role as grandma. She has several granddaughters and grandsons that she adores. She resides in California.

FAQs

Who is Devon Aoki’s dad?

Devon’s father is the late Rocky Aoki, the Benihana restaurant chain owner. He once told The New Magazine that Devon was his favourite daughter.